Dying To Know

This might be an interesting subject for men. This is when the old saying “never judge a book by its cover” come in handy. Or, perhaps “the first impressions last forever”. Some people believe that they can easily tell a person’s personality just by the first ten second based on their appearances, behaviors, and the way they speak. However, some people need more than ten second to do so, especially when it comes to women.

From top to toe
Hair. Some women like to have their hair set in a way that always looks perfect. They will be considered to be the type of women who like attention, while the others might just want to be more relaxed in their appearance and leave their hair in a simple way. After that, let’s move down below to the feet. Check out what kind of shoes they have on. Some women match their shoes with their outfit. Does it mean that she put her appearance as her highest priority? Meanwhile, some women just simply wear slippers, this give the impressions that they are too lazy to take care of themselves. Then, check out the whole appearance, the dress. If she looks like a magazine model, she has the impressions like to be noticed by others, she has the luxury of time, or worse she has the potential to dominate any relationship. While those who just dress in a simple way, will build the impressions that she is not giving her self enough attentions. If she cannot even take care of herself, how can she take care of other person especially her boyfriend?

Extra observation
The most important thing of the first impression will be her “appearance” in communicating. The way she carries herself toward a conversation. The language, the tones, she uses and the expressions shown. Some women will just simply keep her emotions inside; this would be difficult, as the nature of her personality cannot be transparent. Another thing that can be observed is her electronic device, such as mobile phone she chooses. Whether she is a hi-tech type or a down-to-earth type, etc.

Everything is relative
Since nothing can be certain, especially in judging women. There are a lot of possibilities that men should consider before he jump into a conclusion about women. There is no absolute proof that women who likes her hair set up and wear those fancy clothes are hard to maintain, or even those who seem to be in a very bad appearance will be a sloppy too. Maybe she just happens to be in the wrong place in the wrong time. That is why there are always a second date, or perhaps third date or even more to come. The thing is, it takes more than just ten minutes to see a person’s personality, and it might take a lifetime too.